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7 jun. 2012

reflections entry 16




wednesday night

good evening everyone...in america or other countries..

finally got the chance to enter my blog...yesterday the disk or hard disk how you call that didnt work...dear husband try and try to fixed it with other programs...didnt helped..so he has buyed a new disk wich will be in a couple of days in the mail..

gladly i have a laptop..which honest i dont understand how people can type in such a small monitor...huubs laptop is bigger..but still i prefer a pc...lol

so in the mean time cant upload my own pictures..its kind of difficult..im sure its possible but i dont have the time right now.

lol  you can imagine my laptop wich i got as gift from huubs mom is very slow..so i let it on before i got to work...still i thank God that the rest works...

has being raining the whole day for 2 days here... i missed some of you...who dont say much...keep the contact ok? is someone here (me) that think about you..yes really...but i do understand we all have a life and family to take care of..

if you want to talk to me just email me..its not much but i will be gladly to answer you..at work has being very difficult for me in many areas...but each day is a new challange..i ask God give me strenght..some times we are all burned out...but jesus nows all whats going on he does and he really cares.

going to check my mail...now and going to sleep...its bedtime...loves


5 jun. 2012

A Best Friend



A best friend is someone who is there for you through thick and thin.  They tell you like it is, always in love, and they pray for you and with you.


  They call you just to say “hi” and they check up on you when they know you’re struggling.  They share in your happiness and cry in your sorrow.  They give more than they take and they ask before you have to tell.

Over the years I’ve learned that who I thought were “friends” turned out to be something entirely different.  Some people want to be there only to have fun.  Some want to be there only when you need a “saviour”.  Some want to be there because they have nowhere else to be.

I’m so grateful that my true, loyal, best friend just happens to be a lady name ingrid..she nurser me in the faith..and was always there and even im married she is still there..she is the kind of person ...we just now she is and will be there

.  Throughout the years, she has shown me what I have not known for years…what it means to be a true friend.  God has put this lady in my life when everyone turn there back to me..when all things saw against me..she believed...in me..thank you ingrid..you are on my mind today dear friend 

and in thrue all  these  years..i have seen you grow too in christ..love you friend..

1 jun. 2012

woman's daybook entry 10






Outside my window...



sunny friday afternoon expecting rain tonight...at home with 
dh


I am thinking...



the bible talks so much about the word LOVE


I am thankful...




for my family...


In the kitchen...

Autumn Beef Stew



some beef stew...mmmm


I am wearing...


home slippers and my pyamas

I am creating...


a schedule ..

I am going...




no where staying home with dh


I am wondering...




why people change their attitude so fast


i am reading....




my bible

I am hoping...








that i can keep up my dieet need to lose some pounds
the older we get it get more difficult..so walking and a healty calories
helped



A favorite quote for today...


Signs, signs



supporting each other 

A few plans for the rest of the week:


Mr. and Mrs. coffee cups.

time with my hubby


A peek into my day...





sunflowers i just love them!


25 mei 2012

woman's daybook entry 9



Outside my window...



today i went to the mall the weather is so good its
 soo  sunny.!... those of you who lived here specially in gelderland nows how great it has being for days...around here...


I am thinking...


thinking of some of you how are you ? i now God is working things out for you...we pray for you my husband and i...


I am thankful...

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for my 2 weeks vacation im able to spend more time with my family


In the kitchen...





huubs cooking..for me today...wich i appreciate so much..i enjoy the moments with my husband


I am wearing...


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home slippers and my pyamas

I am creating...

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a schedule ..

I am going...



to haarlem 

tomorrow early in the morning finally God made it possible...will take pictures and a video to share on my blog...will be a nice day!


Visit the ten boom Museum website for a fantastic 360-degree, narrated tour—you'll feel like you are right there (be sure to enter the hiding place itself, in Corrie's bedroom)]

I am wondering...


what im going to experienced there..huub and i were looking a part of the video were they are behind the scenes how the film has being made..and we listen to her preaches..

i am reading....


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my bible

I am hoping...






a sunny lovely day!



A favorite quote for today...





being content even life isnt going the way we want

A few plans for the rest of the week:





A peek into my day...



blouse and earrings i bought today..simpel


another summer blouse...its so hot these days...




24 mei 2012

Associate With Positive People ( encouraging word )


Have you ever heard the phrase, "We become part of what we are around?."

 Have you given much thought to how this principle has been molding and shaping your life? It's worth thinking about. The people you associate with have a profound affect on how you feel and what you'll ultimately achieve.

I'm sure most of you have heard this principle before. Some of you have heard it a hundred times. But this is one of those areas where there is a large gap between theory and practice. In other words, you know it's important to limit involvement with negative people, yet you continue to hang around with them.


By the way, I'm not talking about your relationship with your spouse or significant other. I'm referring to discretionary relationships, both at work and in your leisure hours.

. As you might expect, toxic people are the ones who always dwell on the negative. The dictionary defines toxic as "poisonous" toxic people continually spew their verbal poison. In contrast, the dictionary definition of nourishing is "to nurture or promote the growth of." Nourishing people are positive and supportive. They lift your spirits and are a joy to be around.

Negative people will always drag you down to their level. They hammer away at you with all of the things you can't do and all of the things that are impossible. They barrage you with gloomy statements about the lousy economy, the problems in their lives, the problems soon to be in your life, and the terrible prospects for the future. 



After listening to toxic people, you feel listless, depressed and drained. 

On the other hand, how do you feel when you are around people who are positive, enthusiastic and supportive? I'll bet that you are encouraged and inspired. You start to pick up their attitude, and you feel as if you have added strength to vigorously pursue your own goals.

If you had a choice, wouldn't you rather hang out with nourishing people? Well, in fact, you DO have a choice. It's up to you to determine who you spend your time with. If toxic people surround you in your daily life, you can do something about it.


To begin with, develop friendships and associations with people who are positive and supportive. In addition, seek out people who are action-oriented and service-oriented. As you spend more and more time in the company of people who have these traits, you, too, will develop the same successful characteristics and put them to use in your life.

Consider who you have been spending your time with. Examine your friendships and relationships at work and during your leisure hours. Those who occupy your time have a significant impact on your most priceless possession ... your mind! It is your responsibility to regulate what you allow into your mind.

Here are some steps you can take to be more responsible in this area:


* If you regularly have lunch with toxic people at work, stop it. You should be able to find a diplomatic way of extricating yourself from this "poisonous" group.

* If you have a toxic relative (which could be your mother, father, son or daughter), it is important to put some limits on your involvement with them. This does not mean that you abandon this relative and never speak to him or her. However, you should not go out of your way to call that person several times each day if he or she is going to put you down or fill the conversation with negative remarks.

* Form your own positive group with friends or colleagues. Make a commitment to meet with these people on a regular basis (e.g., once a week or once a month) to discuss goals, exchange ideas and offer support. These should be people who accept you as you are and yet challenge you to be the best that you can be.



In case you're wondering, I'm in favor of trying to help friends who are negative. I think we should make efforts to steer them in a more positive direction. But if we've been trying for the last 9 years and the person insists on being negative, maybe it's time to severely limit the amount of time we spend with that person - or to stop spending any time with that individual.

As you increase your associations with nourishing people, you will feel better about yourself and about your ability to achieve your goals. You'll become a more positive, upbeat person -- the kind of person others love to be around. I used to think that it was important to associate with positive people and to limit involvement with negative people. Now, I believe that it is essential if you want to be a high-achiever and a happy individual.

By the way, as you continue to associate with positive people, the law of attraction starts to kick in. That law states that LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE. When you are positive, you'll attract more positive people into your life. Of course, if you are NEGATIVE, you'll attract negative people.

So, surround yourself with positive, nourishing people -- they will lift you up 



22 mei 2012

encouraging word this morning...


LIVING HOLY LIVES



We cannot understand what Holy living is unless we first know what it means to be Holy. To be holy simply means to be set aside for God's use or service.  God is a Holy.. God and that He demands we should be holy if we are to be like him (1 Peter 1:15-16; Lev.11:44; Lev.19:2).

Why should we like God? It is because we are created in his image and likeness (Gen.1:26&27). Because we are like God we must give more thought to heavenly things and less attention to worldly attractions.

What  is Holy living?

1.Holy living is to live like God: We should care about what God cares for and live our lives to please him and him alone (Rev. 3:1-6)

2.It is seeking God's presence: Our desire to live like him would always propel us to seek his presence and be much more comfortable dwelling with him and learn from him (Psalm 27:4)

3.It is to have self-control: One of the fruit of the Spirit of God is self-control; a child of God who does not have control over his/her life is not leading a holy life yet. This involves the kinds of things we eat, our temperaments, etc. It also involves what we watch with our eyes (Psalm 101:3)

4.It also involves control over our influence on others: The word of God says we must watch what we wear so as not to push others into sin. 

To live to please God therefore is to be conscious about this and do all we can to control what we put on that is capable of enticing our brothers or sisters to sin (Luke 17:1; 2Tim.2:9; 1 Peter 3:3-4; Deut.22:5; 1 Thess.5:22)

5.It means to control our behaviour: To live a holy life is to control the way we behave especially when with those who are weaker in faith; we must not do anything that would cause those who are weak to lose their faith in Christ Jesus (1 Cor.8:12)

6.It is dedication to God's service: It involves giving one's best into God's service - putting one's time, money, intellect, etc to make the work of God move forward and prosper.

7.It's about faithfulness in Tithing: Holiness cannot be complete without simple obedience to God's command on tithing. Tithing is simply giving a tenth of one's income to God (Mal.3:10; Matt.23:23)

 living a holy life is not to strive to please man but God who has called us out for his service.


18 mei 2012

woman's daybook entry 8



Today...


OUTSIDE MY WINDOW...


its still dark quiet a very good weather...so i can get to do my daily tasks
didnt went to the friday's market...didnt feel like..on internet i can find a lot of 
information ..


I AM THINKING....





humanity...dont ask me why...lol...



I AM THANKFULL..




my family but for the little things that God do in my life



I AM WEARING...




my pyamas..


FROM THE KITCHEN...






my victorian cup...ready making some coffee


I AM CREATING...





funny im making a budget for this month...i keep it on


I AM GOING...



To the corrie ten boom museum...i can wait!


I AM WONDERING



going with the train..first stop in amsterdam then haarlem..wondering if the street balterjoristraat is far from the central station..i might have to walk...who cares?  lol


I  AM  HOPING   PRAYING



for many people that are having very hard times..divorces sickness family pastors..


I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO



that i can use my free days as usefull as i can..time is crucial these days...


I AM LEARNING...




all that and more the lord is good and i am thankful to him for the growth and learning.



around the house



some vacuum organizing..have accomplished a lot in 2 days hoera!


I AM PONDERING...




the ways of the family as the Lord originally planned..


A FAVORITE QUOTE FOR TODAY...





FEW PLANS FOR THE REST OF THE WEEK




church some time with my dh..


A PEEKING INTO MY DAY ...


its sunny today so start to clean my windows in the pc room



nice and clean...i love organization and a clean home..
as you see its a beautiful day! the sun shines so great

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